Lately, i am bother by the above question or should i say is time to seriously think about my future. This question has not popped up to me for the first time, instead i have been procasinating addressing it.
1. What do i want?
2. What is the future like?
My friend say this to me " we have to have a goal or something about the future, cause we might end up nowhere and back to the same position as where we have started. we might just WASTE our life away!"
Using this word WASTE scares me cause i hate wastage especially to food....hee hee... but i am a waster of $$$$ and i am damn guilty of that.
I also realised that i have not been saving enough, barely $100 a month, the rest on servicing credit card bills.
A lot of issues to address......and think about
Yesterday i was at the airport seeing my ex-boss off to Perth ( migrate). She came to Singapore to work and she is a great lady in character, strong, independent as i see her as a guide in my life. She is moving on to a new life in Perth, persuading a life she wanted. I am very happy for her.
I also start to wonder if i should start planning for myself as i could see myself in the same situation 10 years down the road? All my friends seeing me off at the departure gate?No crying please! On my way to freedom, a life which i hope to live ????? Can't help but feel that i am STUCK now some how.
So i must start thinking about it NOW..... So have u thought about yours?
2 comments:
1. I will have to save enough money which will be my new year resolutions. Finances is important as it gives you power.
2. I will have to work harder to earn more income
3. I will still enjoy life little pleasures although i feel stuck at the moment. I have to make the best of all situation.
4. Mean while i should start to develop my interest.
No one likes feeling stuck. It is important to know what you really want and then take some action towards it. Even if progress is slow, you will feel better going in the right direction.
Are you overwhelmed by a sense of dread every time you try something new? Happy people focus on what is possible rather than dwell on the chances for failure. They look at the lighter side and find humour even in sticky situations
This also applies to inner judgements. Many of us are self-critical when we need to practice a little kindness towards ourselves. Observe your own thoughts - what do you tell yourself about how you are handling things? Maybe you did make a mistake, but you were exhausted.
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